Al sendero voy
Little by little, I'm moving towards improvement and acceptance.
As I've been saying in previous posts, I'm building a path of self-love. This year I thought everything was going wrong, but I hadn't realized that it has allowed me to find myself. My approaches have changed a lot, from the makeup I usually use every day, I mean to be myself on a casual day, to my hair and way of expressing myself.
I've always been tied to certain standards imposed by society, and let's be honest here, standards of the patriarchy, because my whole way of being was to be accepted within this society, to live quietly, without anyone criticizing me, to have a conventional family, a man who finds me attractive. But from one day to the next, it's like something has ripped a bandage off me. I no longer want to be seen as if I were some kind of trophy, I don't want to be accepted, I no longer want to meet anyone's expectations but my own.
Of course this does not mean that I will live in total anarchy, of course I have to follow some protocols and rules for a healthy coexistence but I mean that now I will be true to myself.
Poco a poco hacia la mejora y la aceptación.
Cómo he estado diciendo en post anteriores, estoy construyendo un camino de amor propio, este año pensé que todo iba con el pie izquierdo pero no había dado cuenta que me ha permitido encontrarme a mi misma, mis enfoques han cambiado mucho, desde el maquillaje que suelo usar día a día, me refiero para ser yo en un día casual, hasta mi cabello y forma de expresarme.
Siempre me até a cierto estándares impuestos por la sociedad, y seamos honestos aquí, estándares del patriarcado, porque toda mi forma de ser era para ser aceptada dentro de esta sociedad, vivir tranquila, sin que nadie me critique, tener una familia convencional, un hombre al que le parezca atractiva. Pero de un día a otro, es como si algo me hubiera arrancado una venda. Ya no deseo ser vista como si yo fuera alguna clase de trofeo, yo no quiero ser aceptada, ya no quiero cumplir las expectativas de nadie más solo las mías.
Por supuesto esto no quiere decir que viviré en una anarquía total, por supuesto que tengo que seguir algunos protocolos y normas para una sana convivencia pero me refiero que ahora seré fiel a mi misma.
🙂
When you accept yourself and realize you are beautiful without makeup, it’s a big turning point in life. Be confident and understand that only your own expectations matter, not what others think about how you should live! 😉 You go girl 🤘
Thank you, you are correct, I'm trying to lead my life according to my own expectations
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