[Spa/Eng] Los niños tambien se preocupan / Children also care

Ayer habiamos regresado de un juego de beisbol, que tenia mi hijo ya que el esta participando de un campeonato a nivel del estado , y la verdad es que es muy emocionante poder acompañarlo en todo este proceso , que de verdad es agotador , desde levantarse muy temprano , porque a veces el tiene que estar a las 7 de la mañana en el estadio porque a las ocho van a tener un juego y deben entrenar , entonces a parte de todas las responsabilidades que conlleva los estudios , tenemos esta del beisbol , pero a pesar de todo lo que implica , la verdad lo disfrutamos muchisimo .

Yesterday we had returned from a baseball game that my son had, since he is participating in a state championship, and the truth is that it is very exciting to accompany him throughout this process, which really is exhausting, from getting up very early, because sometimes he has to be at 7 am in the stadium because at eight o'clock they will have a game and must train, then apart from all the responsibilities that comes with studies, we have this baseball game, Sometimes he has to be at the stadium at 7 o'clock in the morning because at eight o'clock there is a game and they have to train, so besides all the responsibilities that come with the studies, we have this baseball, but despite all that implies, the truth is that we enjoy it very much.

El juego fue bastante reñido contra el otro equipo , ya que era segunda vez que jugabamos a con el , y la primera nos gano por mucha ventaja (22/4), asiq eu esta vez los chicos del equipo, estaba super activos y emocionados , mi hijo a pesar que el todavia esta en su mundo y apenas esta empezando a comprender el beisboll , lo hizo excelentemente bien , bateo un hit , que esa pelota salio lejisimo, y yo como toda una mama fanatica lo que hacia era gritar y gritar de alegria .

The game was quite close against the other team, since it was the second time we played with them, and the first time they beat us by a big advantage (22/4), so this time the boys of the team were super active and excited, my son, although he is still in his world and is just beginning to understand baseball, did excellently well, he hit a hit, that ball went far away, and I as a fanatic mom what I did was screaming and shouting for joy.

Se que voy a estar ronca , porque los gritos no eran normales pero eso e slo que hace una mama fanatica , apoya a su hijo cn toda su energia y su animo , y se que mi hijo puede percibir mi amor y mi entrega asi sea en las gradas del estadio .

I know I will be hoarse, because the screams were not normal, but that is what a fanatic mother does, she supports her son with all her energy and encouragement, and I know that my son can perceive my love and my devotion, even if it is in the stands of the stadium.

las mamas del equipo/the team's moms

Cuando regresamos a casa , despues de haberlo bañado y cambiado , el me pregunto si yo habia visto el batazo que el dio , porque la verdad le dio duro y lo hizo muy bien , entonces le respondi que si , y el entonces me pregunto si ya no tenia la vista dañada .

When we returned home, after bathing and changing him, he asked me if I had seen the bat he hit, because he really hit it hard and did very well, so I told him yes, and he then asked me if his eyesight was no longer impaired.

la verdad no pude contener las lagrimas y lo abraze y el se puso a llorar conmigo diciendome que no queria que estuviera asi , y le explique algunas cosas .

The truth is that I couldn't hold back the tears and I hugged him and he started to cry with me saying that he didn't want me to be like this, and I explained some things to him.

Tengo un problema visual llamada maculopatia miopica degenerativa , y si es un tema bastante dificil para el que lo tiene que enfrentar , pero he sido de las personas que lucha con los desafios . No pensaba que para mi hijo esto era una preocupacion , porque la verdad no tiendo a mencionar mucho ese hecho en la casa , porque la verdad trato de ser lo mas independiente que pueda , si obviamente al tener un cierto tipo de miopia tambien me cuesta ver de lejos, pero jamas pense que el llegara siquiera a reflexionar en esto .

I have a visual problem called degenerative myopic maculopathy myopia, and if it is a rather difficult issue for the one who has to face it, but I have been one of the people who struggles with the challenges. I did not think that for my son that was a concern, because the truth is I do not tend to mention that fact much at home, because the truth is that I try to be as independent as I can, if obviously having a certain type of myopia also costs me to see far away, but I never thought that he would even reflect on this .

Y alli es donde los niños una vez mas nos sorprenden , los niños realmente pueden sentir lo que sentimos , y desde la base de sus pensamientos ellos pueden tener preocupacion , ansiedad , angustia o frustracion .

And that is where children once again surprise us, children can really feel what we feel, and from the basis of their thoughts they can have worry, anxiety, anguish or frustration.

En ese momento que mi hijo me dijo eso , solo le dije que aunque mi problema no se habia solucionado aun , no se preocupara porque yo siempre lo veia a el , y todo lo que hacia , tanto asi que le pongo una manga roja para poderlo distinguir a la distancia de todos los demas niños , para los miopes saben lo dificil que puede llegara ser ver de lejos .

At the time my son told me that, I just told him that although my problem had not been solved yet, not to worry because I always saw him, and everything he did, so much so that I put a red sleeve to distinguish him at a distance from all the other children, for the myopic know how difficult it can be to see far away.

El reconocer y entender que ellos tambien son susceptibles a nuestros problemas y pueden percibir nuestras emociones , nos ayuda a saber como reaccionar de acuerdo alas situaciones que se nos presenten y tambien a ser mas empatico con ellos , porque como niños asumimos que ellos viven en su mundo , y que no entienden de nuestras dificultades , pero si lo hacen , y es alli donde nosotros como padres debemos guiarlos en sus emociones .

Recognizing and understanding that they are also susceptible to our problems and can perceive our emotions, helps us to know how to react according to the situations that arise and also to be more empathetic with them, because as children we assume that they live in their world, and that they do not understand our difficulties, but they do, and that is where we as parents must guide them in their emotions.

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