...FELT BAD AND PISSED UP

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Have you ever been in a situation where you feel no one understands?
Have you ever felt bad and pissed up because of an individual's attitude?
Have you ever just discovered that whatever someone does gets you angry at times?
I believe there are more than a million things that could piss one in a day but what you do when such things comes matters a lot.

What an experience!!!

Many times is commonly said that experience is the best teacher. I tend to concur to this statement though at times the experience of others could be a spring board for you to thrive.

A married man with two beautiful kids has this to share and might inspire someone to stay positive. The experience started before the arrival of the kids. A newly married couple normally portray an image of everything is well, sweet etc as if it all bed of roses all through. This often is not the reality there in because a lot has been swept under the carpet.

After few months into the marriage, certain behavior began to change and the man started noticing strange display from his wife such that he virtually became angry at anything she does. Sometimes the thought for divorce creeps in but thank God for their counselor that intervened to settle the conflict and a relative peace was restored.

As if that was all, later the children started coming and behold growing as well, the kind of attitude displayed by these children could make one beat them almost everyday. At times when you want to rest that's when one of them will start an uncontrollably cry which keeps one in a fixed position to either punish them or keep tolerating them.

One the things I have come to realized about life is that most times what builds one's character is determined by the kind of hurdles he goes through. Pains, challenges are gateways to improve one's attitude, or correct a defect in an individual. There are clean opportunity too that makes one to showcase his real character like when you are happy, have plenty money, succeed in something etc.

What makes one feel bad and pissed up is the deficiency in the person's character. I remembered an event also that occurs years back where I was directly involved with someone who acted disgustingly that made me loss peace and pissed up, felt like not relating with anyone again. He was supposed to deliver a consignment to me within a week but to my greatest surprised the supplier could not give a clear communication hence we were kept at the dark. We called her severally but couldn't pick the call but later . I was just furious and felt very bad. Hmmm this kind of atmosphere continued for a while before I could redress my self on track.

LESSONS

• We are all human hence work in progress. We may have deficiency but one should learn to develop high tolerance spirit no matter the wrong committed by an individual.
• You may not know how weak you're until you pass through a pressure which will bring your true identity.
• It's natural to be offset but what we do during such period matters a lot.
• Work on your emotions because it can be tamed.
• When you feel bad and pissed up, don't allow it to linger for so long because it can generate to emotional disorder.

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