I Went SUPER ELITE MEGA MONK Status (UPDATE)
Being a monk is honestly rough when you are lifting heavy and your testosterone is naturally this high. I have made a lot of realizations and got many confirmations in this stretch of pain.
You have to ask yourself what is the natural order and what is worth it and what isn't? Are the SIMPS winning? Should you employ tattoo game, memorize a bunch of scripture, be a corporate cuck, live vanlife and surf everyday while high on Pakistani Hash Oils and Shrooms?
1st Realization
This is nothing new but people aren't doing very good in the United States. People are getting their teeth kicked in by inflation and they are on edge about this upcoming election. This has added to the division between men and women because statistically young women are going more liberal and young men are going more conservative. This has added extreme stress to people but especially women who tend to make decisions based on emotions vs a more logical approach.
Even though I'm a monk and not on the search for new women at the moment there are various women from the past or if women are right in front of me and I start talking to them that is another story.
2nd Realization
Even the super SIMPS who lead with their wallets ultimately have to pay more even for these women selling themselves. Even if someone was going to pay a whore the price isn't going to be the same for a hot guy who is in shape compared to a guy who is 5'3" 382lb. This was a realization that I had subconsciously noticed. Sounds super weird but their are levels to these women selling themselves. Is a woman selling herself if she is expecting a man to put a roof over her head and put an expensive ring on her finger? For this example I'm more talking about women straight up asking for cash money. I have never given a woman cash money, Subscribed to an OnlySimps account, or paid for some private lap dance or anything of that nature. I'm not saying any of that should be illegal or any of that but it isn't my game. Lions don't eat roadkill. This realization mainly comes from my friend from California who was playing baseball in the Netherlands. He ended up in a situation where these women selling themselves basically going to let him bang them for $200 essentially and they were telling him they charge other guys $2,000 basically. He didn't do it and we can say that it might be part of these women's sales pitch all the time but we see this basically in normal society. I just pull up to chicks places most of the time mainly because I figured out they don't want to drive anywhere and waste their own gas. Sometimes I bring cheap wine, edibles, my jokes, conspiracy theories, and good vibes.
I use music game a lot. I have had full on music concerts with so many women it is kind of ridiculous. The confirmation though is when I get asked back several times or women are popping back up a decade later.
3rd Realization
The women are giving props to other women and men are giving other men props. There isn't as much accolades being given to men by women especially. You can see this on Instagram. So many people don't like posts. THEY SEE THE POSTS but they just scroll on by. More people were liking stuff in the past but it is like people don't want to give free likes.
I actually get quite a bit of respect from the younger generation. Guys that are college athletes. In a lot of ways they see that they can learn something from me but getting that level of respect out of the female equivalent of those guys is really fucking hard. I do have a bit of traction in those situations but it is tough for anyone even the guys that are athletes at those universities. In some respects it is harder for them because they won't want the word getting out if things dont' work out. We would think the work is already done but then it is like you have to continue to qualify and requalify yourself.
4th Realization
Most of the legitimately hot women in the United States aren't in relationships or married until they fall off their peak. I'm talking like 95% of these chicks in college that are legit 8s and 9s aren't officially with anyone and they aren't hooking up as much as you think. They might get with a guy from high school when it is fall break or Christmas break but your thoughts that these smoke show chicks are getting with all these guys. That's less than 5% of them I would say. Yeah are there some videos out there online with chicks saying these high body counts? Yeah but again that is a low percentage of these women. There are way more chicks who are 25 years old and have never had an actual boyfriend and maybe had a couple hook ups and are very confused about how to approach trying to have a boyfriend or any of that.
They have been sold a lie and because of the nature of the dating market it is very tough for them to navigate and men have had to turn into savages in response to this modern environment. Most guys with any level of game aren't taking these chicks on an sort of dinner date to get to know them. You basically get burned showing too much interest or offering to do anything like that.
5th Realization
The birthrates are going to implode way worse than the projections. I have tracked a lot of guy's success or lack there of in the dating market and my network has cleats and boots on the ground around the globe.
In a place like the United States if you don't stick with a high school sweetheart or have a similar type situation early in college statistically it is going to be very unlikely for you to sustain any longevity without paying out the ass or essentially having no power in the relationship. Realize that with no fault divorces and the courts generally siding in the favor of the woman in the United States it isn't uncommon for women to keep gaining more and more leverage. People don't realize how many women are allowed to have sex with more alpha dominating men with big cocks as part of the negotiation of being in a relationship or marriage. In the past the woman's family would pay a Dowry to the man to take care of the daughter and get them started out in life. Now the man is going to pay out the ass and have to allow her to fuck other dudes. Let's just say the boyfriend / husband isn't comfortable with that. Well she can basically just do that anyways and what is he going to do? Oftentimes the woman becomes too expensive to divorce. Marriage just isn't what it used to be. With each level of commitment you actually lose more leverage. Once you are married all the power goes to her and there is no guarantee there will be any sex happening. I would say 95% of these marriages are a disaster.
As far as the birthrates are concerned so many of these women think they have unlimited time and unlimited options. They will sight some celebrity that had a baby when she was 43 but they don't know the full story behind that and they don't realize that even if they are 33 there are far fewer guys willing to invest long term. They get very frustrated and I always go back to 3 women I met in Thailand that were from Houston Texas. They were turning 30 in 2019 so now they are mid 30's and none of them are in relationships, engaged, or married. These were objectively attractive women and they seem generally conservative leaning.
So imagine guys who are 6' to 6'3", athletic, solid look, and mainly only getting half smiles out of overweight single moms. Things are very off and it basically doesn't make sense to be trying to get married or have kids with women here 99.98% of the time. VERY Risky. It's still going to be a risk but the best bet is to go to other countries at this point. I would say the same thing to these dudes that are 25 and good looking and would say the same thing for a guy who is 55. Soon the majority of athletic college guys will even have to hit up the nursing homes and clap cheeks there because they will be so ignored by all the younger women. You think I'm joking? You have noticed there have been a lot more of these age gap relationships where there are younger men dating older single moms right? Well think about in 10 years. It will be younger men dating grannies.
Women here think you are a joke and they think a guy like me is a joke as well. End of story they aren't impressed. They have 7,371 other hypothetical better options they won't end up with. Fembot overload.
Conclusion
Right now I'm pretty strong and my body feels good but I'm at 229lb. I need that extra weight to build power and then when I go into my cut to really have that power at lower weights. The process sucks and I have never used performance enhancing drugs. These guys that use roid game destroy their endocrine systems and they can never really go off the drugs and have erectile issues and all this other stuff and then they are using drugs to try to stay hard.
The fact is I get why guys completely give up and are dropping out of the dating market and the work force. They are seeing guys who are built up getting scraps. We are in uncharted territory considering women get more attention than any other women in human history. Literally a 7 out of 10 chick from some basic ass MidWest town will get more attention than a Queen did a 1000 years ago. That shit would go to my head too.
I'm not giving up. I have been a lucky man and in a lot of respects the fact that this landscape is so harsh has caused me to level up even more and actually side step a lot of the carnage I see around me. These dudes getting divorced and going through these custody battles. It's brutal.
I'm just going to keep doing my lifts and stacking my coins at the moment and plot my escape.
Maybe find a nice church girl... :)
There are certainly levels to the church girls. I have coached at 2 Christian Universities and they have even been hit by the modern world as well. 75% of the marriages that would occur where people met at those Universities ended in divorce which was shocking to be honest. They often want to get in a scripture debate and I'm never going to be knowledgeable enough about that.
I think there are a number of reasons behind things unraveling but I have determined we are 5 years behind the Netherlands and 10 years behind Japan and South Korea in our birthrate and relationship collapse.
The Mexicans, homesteaders, Amish, Mormans, and a few other groups are keeping our numbers not looking cataclysmic at the moment but when it comes to a lot of the rest of the population I just see tons of single moms and boss babes who are looking at dudes as a joke.
A lot more people are bringing up this birthrate collapse but it's even tough for the majority of guys to get a first date or a match on a dating app. Then to get past that point and even last a few weeks or a few months with a woman is extreme low percentages.
A few things I have realized that are big issues is that they always think there is something better out there and the world has told women they are in charge now. So if they can't sort of run the show they are mad and in their test of seeing what they can get away with suddenly someone like me has moved on and has determined them to be a headcase.
The church girls are on Instagram as well so them having a necklace with a cross on it won't prevent them from running off or filing for divorce eventually.
Last summer when I was in Canada the difference was noticeable. The women were of higher quality and I was a standout character there. Very strange considering it was just a 6 hour drive and it was cornfields and bean fields. It was all the same but the women were different. I have had a similar experience with Australia. The unfortunate thing is a lot of the women in those countries are vaccine injured.
Crazy I have to go to other countries to get respect. It took me going to Canada to finally get some legitimate respect on this continent.
Now I have to go clear to Europe to actually have a runway.
Even Tom Brady's game wasn't infinite and NBA players and A list actors are saying they can't find a quality women. It's only going to get worse here.
I think it's partly environmental. I know quite a few people who would like to have kids but for whatever reason they just can't or they have to fork over a lot of money and poking and prodding to get the job done. Dang, I live so close to Canada, I wish I had known that sooner. Actually, I've been married 15 years and I met my wife at work, so what do I know.
I have listened to a few of these podcasts recently and they were saying about 80% of the people they interviewed that wanted to have kids but didn't was more from a situation where it just didn't happen for them. 20% seemed to be from some medical related situation that wouldn't allow them to.
I would be better off living in Canada or Australia from that perspective and oddly enough actually still have a 6 month Visa for Australia that I didn't end up using. Hopefully I can go there this winter.
I don't think there will be a longer runway with a Canadian or Australian chick though. I just think there will be a slightly longer success.
What I have noticed with a lot of women is they think want to keep their options open and they have some age in their head where they are going to be married before that whether it is 28 or 30 or whatever and then they think prince charming is going to show up and they are going to hit some last second buzzer beater. Then suddenly that doesn't happen and they are 33 or 37 or 39 or whatever age and they realize guys aren't cuffing them or they aren't a long term prospect and they just turned away thousands of guys when they were younger. No one has really had the conversation with them but the statistics aren't on their side once they get past certain points.
People are underestimating how many men are looking for the exit whether that is looking to go to Asia, Europe, Brazil..... etc.
Some people might say that there is an issue with all these guys but it is like saying Tom Brady's game was busted. The stats are looking extremely bad especially for men in their 20's. I see the frustration with a lot of these guys.
I'm definitely glad I am well past that point in my life. Navigating all of this stuff in this day and age can't be a cake walk. I guess that makes me one of those old geezers now!
Well it is certainly a time and energy drain in a lot of ways and I often think about if I would have found a chick that was on my program then energy could be more focused.
That being said most married men would rather be me. I have had a level of freedom that in a couple of years I was able to do more things than most people do in their entire lives and I'm very thankful for that. For the most part I don't have this feeling of "What If." I got to chase a lot of dreams.
It sounds like things are working out for you for the best then.
Yup! Plot your escape!
The story sounds really pessimistic and sad! These people are wasting their lives and potentials for having a fulfilling lifestyle. Unless you consider the foreign migrants and their offsprings. Perhaps they could have more sensible attitudes!
It's unfortunate to have to think about leaving but it is what it is.
The numbers have gotten really off here in the United States. We would think some of the illegal aliens would be potential but the issue is most of what was coming over was military aged men and some of the women that are from Mexico or Venezuela we don't really know if they are actually scouts for gangs down there or drug cartels. We just really don't know. But staying here it is mainly too expensive. There is little to no value left.
Wow! You’re very objective and practical! I think it might be cheaper to move away than to build a safe house in a remote area there.
The issue of depopulation and declining birth rate and weird attitudes among the available herds seemed to go towards negative outcome.
Alas! A man has got to do what he has to do.
Hope you could find a suitable place for your future prosperity and good life. I would have a look at Bulgaria; some bloggers from Bulgaria have been showing nice and peaceful lifestyles there
One well known blogger and his family have recently moved to the Philippines ( from Germany).
A British blogger has settled in Puerto Rico.
A well known crypto family has just moved to Phuket in the south of Thailand. He said there’s a new kind of visa for renewable six months’ visa.
Montenegro is supposed to be quite nice too. Dubai is very popular with crypto companies, more crypto people are moving to Dubai.
Good luck!
The issue here is moving way out in the middle of nowhere there are no women. Women in the United States are pretty entitled. UK women seem to be pretty bad as well. So any traction is short lived at best. I think Poland, Montenegro, or Croatia would be decent for me. Dubai seems nice but looks super expensive.
I would be concern about the politics in Poland and political corruptions. It would be a target for nuclear retaliation too.
The policy about vaxx mandates should be looked into as well. From what I had known years ago, some countries are under cia’s influence. Attitudes of people in the country on political issues are also important. The risk of unrest and civil wars or uprising could increase.
Some Americans have to get out of some South African countries as the internal political situation became very risky.
Yeah, at one point I looked into the percentages. Montenegro had like 50% Vaxxx rates. Seemed like Poland was somewhat similar. Foreigners can't own farmland in Poland. There are various stuff like that.
Someone said something that made a lot of sense. Going and living in these other countries like Japan or Poland can be beneficial potentially but I would be a second class citizen or guest in that country.
So, the local culture and people’s attitudes are very important.
How local people perceive the tourists and foreign expats would matter quite a bit.
I still think Bulgaria is much more easy going than the other two places.
In the Philippines, social life is a bit restricted but English is widely spoken there.
In Thailand, there are hubs of expats married to local Thais in several villagers in the northern provinces. In Phuket and Chiengmai, lots of expats living and working in international companies. Bangkok is too noisy and crowded nowadays but you could find a job related to cryptocurrency, you could search the local headhunter companies.
But Phuket would offer better environment. There used to be several foreign Hive bloggers living in Phuket. Some had moved to Dubai.
Still one Hive witness married to local lady still live and work in Phuket.
About three more foreign bloggers married to local ladies living in other provinces. I came across these people via their blogs.
There’s a big community of expats in Chiengmai with clubs and associations.
Still English isn’t widely spoken by local people.
I like the vibes and natural surroundings in Bulgaria. People’s attitudes about the vaxx was quite positive; they just ignored the mandate. They were sensible not to comply.
Thailand would have political upheavals in the near future. We do go through some peculiar political cycles of violent conflict resolution!
https://ecency.com/philippines/@jaki01/how-we-stay-in-the-philippines-wie-wir-auf-den-philippinen-wohnen
I liked visiting Phuket.
I actually haven't even been to Europe yet which is insane.
I loved the vibe in Australia but it is expensive.
I want to play baseball in Europe and really get cleats on the ground to figure out what kind of traction I have there.
Western European countries G5 countries are out of bound as the Muslim population would overwhelm the white people soon! Too dangerous to live there now!
Eastern European countries seem more peaceful at the moment. The nonaligned countries would do best next year. NATO is hell bent on starting a big military conflict very soon.
People in some European countries might have food shortages next year! So, go where food is abundant and cheaper!
Australia and New Zealand are becoming very much like Brave New World, by looking at their new laws! Crypto people are fleeing from New Zealand to Dubai too. Digital Money would be in full force in these two countries soon!
Yeah Western Europe looks like it got blown out with immigration. The current administration here in the United States is trying to start WW3. Really it has already began. It is sickening.
This one is worth a look too. It’s about five years’ visa.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Qw9ZvCddkoM
5 years visa is really good.