My Little Litter Bug
From my son,
I want explanations
that I,
at his age,
could never
have given.
As my children get older, I think a lot about what kind of a kid (and young adult) I was.
I wasn’t a bad kid.
I stayed out of trouble.
That said, the only real reason that I stayed out of trouble was because I was lucky and didn’t get caught doing the bad things that I did.
Had I been asked for a reason as to why I stole a shirt or beer or a friend’s money, I wouldn’t have been able to give one.
Had I been asked what I was thinking when I decided to roll pumpkins down a hill into a busy street, or huff gasoline, or throw a packet of fireworks into the school gym while most of the students in my grade were taking a final exam, I would only have been able to say that I wasn’t thinking. Or rather, perhaps, that I was focused on the adrenaline rush and the pre-thrill of the actions and nothing else.
I’ll say it again, though, and mean it, I wasn’t a bad kid, and I didn’t have a bad upbringing. I just, for some reason, did a lot of stupid shit with my friends.
Had I been caught doing these things, maybe I wouldn’t have continued doing them for as long as I did. Maybe I would have grown up a little faster.
I don’t know.

My reason for having walked over 10,000 steps today is that I was teaching my children a lesson. After finding out a month ago that they had been using their allowance money to buy candy for their friends, eating it on the school playground after school had finished, and stuffing the garbage into the sewers, I had a long talk with them about respecting school rules and the effects of littering.
I had thought that a long talk would be enough.
Turns out it wasn’t. Yesterday, I got a call from the school and my daughter was at it again.
So today, instead of being allowed to play with her friends, my daughter had to accompany me on a walk across the city, picking up trash and filling plastic bags along the way, to a store where I’m hoping to sell some stenciled hand bags (as seen in this post).
I expect to have another 10,000 step day tomorrow, as the littering lesson continues.
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The bags are cool. Good luck selling them!
Great way to drive a lesson home with your daughter. Reminds me of the time my 8 year old daughter put her tiny hands around a classmate's neck (in her brand new school) and squeezed. lol. She wasn't a bad kid either.
I did so much stuff like this too. Never got caught. There must be an awful lot of stuff like this done, that no one ever gets caught doing.
Your comment reminds me of something my son did when he first entered elementary school.
In Japan, elementary school students take turns dishing out the food to their classmates during lunchtime. When my son entered elementary school, it wasn’t a smooth transition. He had a lot of behavioral outbursts, and one of the things he did was say to his classmate, If you don’t give me more rice, I’ll kill you. I’m not sure how exactly he said it, but that was an awkward phone call to get.
In the US, he would have been suspended or expelled. We've gone stark raving mad over here. A public school is no place for a kid.
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Brilliant lesson 👏🏻 :)
Let me know if it works to shift her perspective? Curious...
Time will tell.
She was in a real stink about the whole thing at first, but I ignored her little tantrums and walked in front of her pointing out garbage and picking it up myself with tongs.
Then, at some point, the roles just changed naturally. I’m not sure why, but soon she was the one holding the tongs, finding the garbage and picking it up while I was secretly thinking to myself, All right, come on now. Hurry up.
I caught myself doing so, and didn’t rush things, but I found that amusing. Here she is, finally doing what I want her to be doing, and doing such a good job of it that it’s seriously slowing us down and making our 30 minute walk to the store an hour and a half long walk, and rather than be happy and proud, my first feeling is of exasperation.
We’ve all got things to work on. 🤣
In the end, she had fun, and we talked about what garbage there was the most of and where we found the most litter (in the storm drains), which led to a conversation about the garbage possibly clogging drainage pipes, potentially causing problems in water treatment facilities, possibly getting washed out into the ocean to be consumed by fish and then eventually by us again.
I think it was a good experience for her.
Unfortunately, today it rained, so we couldn’t do it for a second day. Instead, we spent the morning in the library, another painful experience for her (in the beginning at least). 😂
😆
Kids love boundaries. It shows we are on it and we care. The end.
I hope you did research in the library to educate her on pollution and the effects its having on the planet ;)
That would have been the best thing to do, but since I had the baby in tow, I disappeared and let her and her big brother figure things out on their own, which they did, and probably much better than they would have if I had been nearby.
I’ve found that my kids (and probably most kids in general) are quite independent when they have to be, but if I’m close by, all that goes out the window and they try to get me to do everything.
Actually, most adults aren’t much different, are they. 😂
Yep! 😆
Independence is a beautiful thing 😍
Keep up such excellent Concepts 😊👌
I’ll do my best.
Thanks.