Memo to Modern Mothers
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This is Angry Buddha, inviting you to swallow discomfort and discover the nonviolent dark side of authentic love:
What are we gonna do about these mothers today? How are we going to love them? The way to love them is certainly not to just keep doing whatever they say and never challenge them. These mothers today: Devouring. Devouring everything they see. Empty. Soulless inside. They think that because they feel nice and loving when they see a human puppy that they must care about that puppy. Everybody loves human puppies. These women confuse adoration for love, and nobody has demanded that they look within. And so they're like vampires, consuming the light of their children.
In this postmodern age there is no truth. There's just words and power. These mothers have figured it out. They didn't think it through, but they sure felt it through, and now they have no hesitation... Not all of them, but enough...not all...but enough mothers today have no reservation about lying to get their way, lying to whoever they have to lie to, to maintain ownership of their children. Of course, what they say is, "I just want to keep the children safe. I just have concern." But in the mental retardation of this postmodern era where the universities have dumbed people down into mindless zombie monkeys, we now believe that concern is evidence for concern. Ironically, it's kind of like being famous for being famous. But now concern is evidence for concern, and because humans don't resist a low risk power-grab, many mothers today have figured it out: All they have to do is invent concern. And if they can invent concern in themselves and they can spread that concern to a few others, then they can go and say, "Well look, there's a group of us that's concerned. You should be concerned also!" Concern is evidence for more concern.
That's sociopathic and we just keep indulging it when what we should do is say, "Okay, you have concern. Rationally, systematically, clearly walk me through the reasons for the concern," but no, that's considered argumentative. That's considered combative. That's considered aggressive.
And so concern rules. And how do we decide who's concerned to pay attention to? Well, it's easy: How pre-approved for victim hood are you? In the same way that you may get a letter in the mail saying you're pre-approved for some kind of credit loan, some groups of people in today's culture are pre-approved for victimhood.
"Just sign up here. Are you a woman? Are you the right kind of minority? Have you been oppressed? Just sign up here and we'll will give you the status of victim without any further questions."
And humans don't resist low-risk power grabs.
As testosterone levels drop and the modern man becomes more and more docile, it's interesting how the family courts are getting more and more flooded with complaints. Why is that? Why? Why are the family courts so congested? It's because the modern mother has lost their integrity to this postmodern era. They will lie and lie and lie. They've been doing it for most of their lives. They will lie and poison the social well. They know how to sell it. They know how to sell it:
"Oh, just protect the children. How could you not want to protect the children? I'm just concerned about the safety of the children. My intentions are just to protect the children."
Well, first off, have you ever heard that the path to hell is paved with good intentions? Don't fall for good intentions. Bad intentions, that's bad. If you have bad intentions you're malevolent. But just because you have good intentions doesn't mean everything that follows is okay.
And today's mother's are paving the road to hell. Specifically, they're paving the road to their children's hell with the fake good intentions they lie about. What they want is power. What they want is to fill their soul with the light of their children because they're empty inside. Like the Barbie dolls they were raised on. And the toy houses, they've been controlling since youth. And now they've grown up. And they're still playing with their doll house and they still believe they own everything inside and they still get to say where all the people go and everything is under their control and they've never been told otherwise. Not all, but enough... Not all but enough that we need to talk about it. And it's going to be uncomfortable. And those who lose power through the conversation are going to go through the death throes where they will do and try and say anything they can in a vicious violent last attempt to hold onto their power. Lying about threats to your children to get the personal upper hand is child abuse. Many of these mothers are performing child abuse on their children and they're selling it as virtue to the dim witted, which is most everyone, particularly on the political left.
They know how to cry wolf. They just keep crying wolf and the town's people keep running because, #BelieveAllWomen. The truth is, we as a culture don't give a shit about our children. Yeah, that's right. We don't give a flying fuck about our children. Look at the teachers. Look at the education system. All the data proves we're failing our children in masses and yet we're not allowed to criticize the teachers. Why do you think that is? Because their intentions are good? Fuck their intentions! Children are far more important than some teacher's self-perspective of their good intentions. The children matter. These moms that flock and clog the family court systems, with their false accusations, leveraging their poor little children against their ex. They don't give a shit about their children. They give a shit about just trying to keep their delicate, fragile ego in place. Don't confuse adoration of a human puppy with genuine love. You see, although these mothers today have not cognitively thought it through, intuitively they know that a negative is very, very hard to prove in court. So they come in, they make false accusations, and for the sake of erring on the side of safety the courts yank the child away from the stereotypical image of the abusive father. Then, the father has the burden of proof to prove that "it" didn't happen. And you can create some uncertainty around it, but it's very, very difficult to prove a negative. And so the court shrug their shoulders, just play it safe, and get played like a fiddle by these modern mothers. They're doing it to themselves and we just keep allowing these modern mothers to cannibalize the souls of their own children.
Not all...but enough...enough that we need to find the courage to talk about it. No matter how much it destroys the safe spaces. No matter how much it's called anti woman Or how much it's called a micro aggression. All the pretty packaging, all the duplicitous language that these malicious people hide behind.... You've got to think through it with clear sharp minds, and tender squishy hearts, which can go together because if the words you say make someone else feel uncomfortable, it doesn't mean you did anything wrong. Don't threaten people. Never threatened people. Never use violence. But you don't owe them their experience of comfort.
So what do we do about these modern mothers? They use concern and they spread concern and they point to a consensus of concern as evidence for more concern... Fuck consensus! People are wrong in numbers all the time. We need clear, rational, sober thinking.
It's interesting, this instinct, at least from a male perspective, to protect women, to guard them. I see it even in myself as a teacher when small children, boys and girls, are fighting. There's this instinct to take the girl's side. I don't know where it comes from. I just assume that boys should be able to handle a firmer hand and girls need to be protected. But we've protected girls too much. It's strange. Today their weakness has been sold as a virtue. These delicate, fragile, brittle-spirited women and mothers today... You'll look at them slightly wrong and then they say,
"I'm being sexually abused." And then we come and we applaud and say, "Oh, you're such a strong, brave victim for coming out and speaking."
"Oh, I had to give him a blowjob. He otherwise...I...just felt intimidated. He raped me as I gave him a blowjob because I just didn't feel like I had any other choice because he was bigger than me."
Are you kidding? You women are celebrating weakness as strength and you dickless men are supporting them in it.
And the children are suffering. The men are suffering. And the women are suffering. We need to stand up. We need to speak. And some will cry. And some will threaten. But we need the courage to have these conversations.
So what do we do? We've got these vicious, duplicitous, dishonest, sociopathic young mothers that are untouchable. You're not allowed to criticize them.
They have all the power and they're cannibalizing our own children, and they've convinced themselves that they're loving these children, when in fact, we don't give a shit about our children.
What do we do? Well...violence is never the answer. First, men need to learn their "No" and be aware of the danger out there that lurks. And women...you good ones...you good ones that actually love children...you good ones...you women who were grown with a spine. Challenge your sisters. Talk to them. This needs to end. This needs to end. We need to talk about the viciousness of these modern mothers that are devouring our children while we all stand along and applaud them.
Maybe some of that resonated with you.
I love you all.