Life Lessons From Sport: Ego Is The First Step Toward Failiure
In February 2009, Daniel Welbeck scored a goal for Manchester United. He celebrated in a coky way, revealing his arrogance and ego. Even though, he was only eighteen years old at the time.
His coach, Sir Alex Ferguson, refused this behavior and punished him by returning him to the reserve team. A source close to him said: "The Scottish coach considered ego to be the first step in destroying the human career."
Many who deviated from the text when they became arrogant; Either their training work declined or underestimated the opponents, or their behavior was a reason for those facing them to do much more work than the usual just to defeat their arrogant ego.
Jupp Derwall, West Germany's coach in the 1982 World Cup, said before facing Algeria: “If I lose, I will go back to Germany on the first train to Munich.”.
He also stated later on that he received tapes showing how the Algerian national team plays and that he hid those tapes from the players believing that they would laugh at him if he asked them to see the secrets of an easy opponent, in their view at least.
That arrogance ended with an Algerian victory that broke the German prestige in that tournament... It was an immortal example in sports of the danger of arrogance!
There are many historical stories starring people with an arrogance that brought them down by a knockout. And that was literally the story of Naseem Hamid. Naseem had a short career as a star. His actions throughout his career were interpreted by some as being arrogant in the arena.
Mario Balotelli disappointed all those who had faith in him as he started as an emerging star who could only go up but slowly started acting foolishly and arrogantly on and off the pitch. His career dwindled from playing with the champions of Europe, Italy, and England, to being a sub in the Turkish league. Balotelli assisted the winning goal for Manchester City and won the Premier League when he was only 22, and since then, the only thing he has in his trophy cabinet is a French league player of the month which he won in 2019.
In the history of sports, there are hundreds of those who fell into this trap. The smart one is the one who learns from others. We have to pay attention and control that time bomb planted in every human being: The arrogant ego.
We need to do that before we receive a knockout while we are oblivious.
Yep and it's never their fault when they start going down hill. Balotelli is only now seeing the light in Turkey but it is a wasted career.
Fact, in the Netherlands we have a proverb, "Pride comes before the fall". That is something that everyone knows, which is often said to and about others. But also one of the character traits that people often refuse to recognize and acknowledge in themselves. It's just a shame that the old proverb always comes true.
Balotelli wasted his promising career and Mancini was the only coach who was ever patient with him. Mourinho once grabbed him by the jersey. Mancini had it when he should have easily tapped home a ball but instead, Balotelli used arrogance to try something audacious and he missed the ball and I think they lost. That was the end of him with Mancini hahahaa. Crazy guy.
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arrogance and ego will always destroy eventually! Great post @amirtheawesome1
Thank you for reading it. Ego prevents us from seeing the wrong things we do.
Nice piece. The biggest question .. did Jupp Derwall head back to Munich on the first train?
No, he constructed the Gijon scandal instead.
Oh wow ... that was a dirt move!
Mario Balotelli basically disappointed all those who believed in him. He is kicking himself for wasting such talent away wherever he is now. Macheda is another one for United when he was told to go on loan to an English team but went to o Italy instead because he felt he has arrived for scoring that winning goal against Villa.
Macheda was among the stories I wanted to explore but didn't seem like he was known enough and Balotelli's story seemed like it summed up the point entirely.
Yes, he wasn't known enough; Macheda. Balotelli just blew it. It's shameful.
Pride goeth before a fall. The saying is very valid. It's important that we don't show off or let pride take the better part of us.
Exactly!
Yeah 👍
What you say in this post is so true. Ego can cause so many things and I can't think of 1 that is positive.
Some people mistake it with confidence. Arrogance is arrogance, and it is bad.